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Pain Management
(Article by Carlos Xuma - Contributing Writer)
(EXTRACTS)

Pain is the sensation of weakness leaving your body. 

The nature of pain, and how it functions in dating and seduction.

The most important thing for a man to do as he learns how to handle women is to keep his head on straight. Keep your attitude healthy, because that will be the ultimate weapon in this war of the sexes. You must keep yourself on the positive upward spiral. The way you handle your pain in the singles world is critical to your overall success.

How do you view pain? 

Do you avoid pain at all costs?  Do you find yourself seeking only pleasure and staying away from circumstances that could potentially cause you pain?

The pain/pleasure motivational spectrum is discussed in the Dating Dynamics e-book, THE DATING BLACK BOOK, and I want to help you through a little of your own anguish here today. How you handle it will ultimately determine your success. You see, you have to be willing - and even a little eager,  as sick as that sounds - to go through a little discomfort to get to your  goals with women. Men don't have the built-in sexual instincts that women are brought up with. Women study this stuff every  week, from Teen magazine to Cosmopolitan, to know how the game works  and how to win. They've always had the upper hand. 

Guys just start out at a natural disadvantage in dating and sex. As young men, we focus on being strong providers and enjoying ourselves, playing football and 'reading' Penthouse from time to time. Our sexual education is mostly comprised of a few bad porno movies, or our embarrassed father trying to explain the birds and the bees. (My dad's attempt was pretty awful.) Women get busy as soon as  they discovered that Ken dolls were not anatomically correct, and they learn how to with other women about the drama  of their relationships for enjoyment.

To get better at the game of dating and seduction, think of  it being something like when Michael Jordan decided he wanted to switch from basketball to baseball. Remember how he tried for the major leagues, but he had to go back to the minors to prove himself? You need to understand that YOU have to go back to the minor league, too. You need to get a few bumps and bruises, and
then you can deal with her in the major leagues. (Unlike Michael, you CAN and WILL make it to the major leagues in this sport if you keep learning   and improving).

 So how do you manage the pain? First of all, realize  that the ONLY pain you feel when you're out there in the world  is all sef-induced. YOU are the one making yourself feel bad  or inadequate 95% of the time. Understand that most women  never do
the things you are afraid of just for walking up and talking  to her, like slapping you or throwing a drink in your face. As long as you're not a complete idiot and don't come on too strong,  women will give you a chance about 99% of the time. All  of the rejection  you are so worried about is made up, and absolutely none of it  reflects on you as a person.  So how do you contend with the constant disappointment and  mixed messages?
 
Pain management is your answer.  

 

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